So let's be honest: why do so many men think that younger women are automatically the better choice? Maybe because of Instagram filters, maybe because of Hollywood, or maybe just because of F... like fantasy.
Many men sign up in younger age groups, give a false age in online dating and hope that women 15 years younger will immediately recognize what a diamond they have in front of them.
Spoiler: They usually don't and don't even look for them.
The reality is different
While some men believe that time has stood still and they are still the cool guys of yesteryear, women usually live in reality. In this reality, humor, maturity and genuine connection count - and not the hair dye in the bathroom or the three snowboard photos from 2014 bravely hanging in the dating profile.
The result?
The younger ladies move on faster than you can say "Swipe left". And the really exciting, attractive women of the right age? They have long since found someone else - someone who has realized that she is not a number, but a jackpot.
Age is (often) really just a number
Because let's be honest: a woman in her 50s can be just as attractive, lively and fascinating as a woman in her 30s. Attractiveness has nothing to do with the year of birth, but with charisma, joie de vivre and authenticity.
The moral of the story:
If you are really looking for love, then be honest - with yourself and with others. Don't sign up for the wrong age group just to have an ego adventure. This usually leads to disappointment.
And another thing: laugh lines are sexy! They show that someone has laughed and lived a lot. So enjoy the moment, have fun - and laugh together. 😉
